מה קרה כשהעזתי להתחיל עם מישהי בפייסבוק
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יש חיים מחוץ לאפליקציות

כבר כתבתי בעבר על היתרונות והחסרונות של אפליקציות ההיכרות.

עבורי היתרון הכי גדול הוא שעם כמה שאני לא ביישן,

נדיר שאעז להתחיל עם מישהי במציאות.

כגרוש שעבר את גיל 40 זה עוד יותר מורכב,

כי סיכוי מאוד גבוה שמי שתתחיל איתה נשואה

וזה כבר יכול להיות מאוד לא נעים, אז אני נמנע מזה.

לפני שבועיים העזתי בפעם הראשונה להתחיל עם מישהי בסופר

ואז התברר שהיא רווקה ללא ילדים שרוצה להקים משפחה ובזה נגמר הסיפור.

אתמול העזתי בפעם הראשונה להתחיל עם מישהי דרך הפייסבוק.

 

הקליק הראשוני

לפני כמה שבועות ביקשה ממני חברות.

לא ממש הכרתי אותה,

אבל בעולם התעסוקתי שלי מאוד מקובל להתחבר בפלטפורמות השונות

ומכיוון שיש לי איתה מספר לא מבוטל של חברים משותפים אישרתי את הבקשה.

לא היה לי יותר מדי זמן לצלול לתוך הפייסבוק שלה

ודי שכחתי מהעניין עד שלפני יומיים היא העלתה תמונה חדשה

ובמעבר הקבוע שלי על הפיד נתקלתי בה ונפלתי.

אין לי טייפקאסט קבוע של נשים שאני נמשך אליהן,

אבל התמונה שלה היתה וואו ממש.

החיוך שלה, שפת הגוף שלה, הווייב שלה.

הרגשתי שאני חייב לנסות ולהכיר אותה.

אבל איך?

אף פעם לא התחלתי עם מישהי דרך הפייסבוק

ולמען האמת אני גם לא אוהב שנשים פונות אלי בפייסבוק

ובכלל אין לי מושג מה הסטטוס שלה.

 

בשביל זה יש חברים

אז צללתי קצת לתוך הפיד שלה ומתמונה לתמונה נדלקתי יותר.

היו לה שם תמונות ממיסות עם ילדים

והמון המון חיוכים ואנרגיה מטורפת,

אבל דבר אחד לא היה שם: גבר.

אמור להיות סימן חיובי עבורי לא?

כי אמנם יכול להיות שהיא נשואה

ובעלה לא מצטלם מסיבות שונות ומגוונות,

אבל סיכוי גבוה שאין גבר בתמונות כי פשוט אין גבר בתמונה.

החלטתי לעבור לשלב הבא ולנסות להשיג אינפורמציה דרך חברים משותפים,

אז פניתי לשניים מהם

אבל התברר שגם הם לא מכירים אותה באופן אישי

ולא רציתי לפנות ליותר מדי אנשים כי זה כבר יכול להקריפ.

 

המעז מנצח?

אחרי עוד כמה נסיונות כשנכנסתי לפרופיל שלה,

ראיתי שהיא מחוברת.

שתי נשימות עמוקות

לחיצה על כפתור ההודעות ו…

"היי"

"היי גם לך חצי, אנחנו מכירים?"

כתבתי לה שקצת לא נעים לי ושאף פעם לא עשיתי את זה (וזה באמת נכון),

אבל היא מאוד מצאה חן בעיני והייתי שמח להכיר אותה.

שניה לפני ששלחתי לה את זה היא התנתקה

לפני שהספיקה לקרוא את מה שכתבתי.

כמה דקות קצרות שנדמו לי כמו שעה עברו לפני שהיא התחברה שוב,

קראה וענתה.

כבר קיבלתי סירוב ודחיית הצעה בעבר, זה לא משהו שלא קרה.

אמנם לא בפייסבוק אלא במקומות אחרים,

אבל בכל מקרה לתשובה הזו לא ציפיתי:

"מצטערת חצי, אבל אני בקטע של נשים".

מסתבר שזה לא מקרי שלא היה גבר בתמונות.

כמה שניות של מבוכה,

כמה מילות נימוס ואיחולי הצלחה הדדיים

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